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EXPRESS YOURSELF! DON'T BACK DOWN!

sexta-feira, 8 de janeiro de 2016

Decide! It's time! What Do I do? Anxiety? How about the Parents?

Decide! It's time!
Who Have you ever heard?
DECIDE
Sinonyms: adjudge, adjudicate, choose, come to a conclusion, commit oneself, conclude, decree, determine, elect, end, make a decision, make up one's mind, purpose, reach or come to a decision, resolve, settle, tip the balance 
Source: Dicionário Reverso

The world today charges us fast decisions. It is a teacher who wants to answer “at his fingertips”. It is the boss who wants the spreadsheet ready in an hour or less. Parents who charge of their children a maturity that, perhaps, the brain is not yet prepared. Among other things. It's great when we take quick decisions. One of the things that makes me so happy is when I see a teenager already a focus. A teenage doing English course focusing graduating. A teenager studying to pass on some great college. A teenager preparing itself to spend at a college of excellence. I think this fantastic, because I did not have this maturity and maturation. When I was a teenager, I studied, yes, a lot. But it was to pass. I remember that my father spoke: “Prepare for the EPCAR or Naval College!”, but I was afraid to stay anywhere else away from them. I preferred to go to FAETEC and make course Accounting (not disparaging). – Did this choice bring more losses or benefits? I will not expose myself here answering this question. - This is not child as most people think. This refers to what in Psychology calls Maturation. Don’t confuse maturity with maturation!

MATURATION
"It is what makes possible certain standard of behavior. Literacy, for example, depends on this maturation. To holding the pencil and handle it like us, a neurological development is necessary for the child of 2, 3 years has not. Notice how it holds the pencil. "
[Book 'Psychologies: An Introduction to the study of psychology "- Authors: Ana Mercês Bahia Bock, Odair Furtado and Maria de Lourdes Trassi Teixeira]

MATURITY
The state or quality of being mature; full development. Sinonyms: adulthood, completion, experience, full bloom, full growth, fullness, majority, manhood, maturation, matureness, perfection, ripeness, wisdom, womanhood
Source: Dicionário Reverso


But it is obvious that those responsible can help and must help. If you analyze that your child has not grown, has not acquired knowledge, it is to worry about, obviously. May be beyond the 'Maturity' and 'Maturation'. But this part is Medicine and I do not understand anything about this. Attention, parents! In fact, the parents’ role is crucial to the growth of their children. The parents’ role is crucial in every way. Everybody needs a mediator in order to pass what we know to what we have the potential to learn. We need a mediator to acquire knowledge, wisdom, insight and maturity. Unfortunately, we have seen a society that thinks the solution is literally throw their children in school and put the responsibility on teachers (who also have their responsibilities as mediators, but very different from those responsible).

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WISDOM
The ability or result of an ability to think and act utilizing knowledge, experience, understanding, common sense, and insight. Sinonyms: astuteness, circumspection, comprehension, discernment, enlightenment, erudition, foresight, insight, intelligence, judgment, judiciousness, knowledge, learning, penetration, prudence, reason, sagacity, sapience, sense, smarts
Source: Dicionário Reverso

DISCERNMENT
Keen perception or judgment. Sinonyms:  acumen, acuteness, astuteness, awareness, clear-sightedness, cleverness, discrimination, ingenuity, insight, intelligence, judgment, keenness, penetration, perception, perceptiveness, percipience, perspicacity, sagacity, sharpness, shrewdness, understanding
Source: Dicionário Reverso

In contrast, to deciding is needs to have patience, insight and wisdom. Why? So that we don’t act on impulse but by reason.

Life puts us in a somewhat unbalanced balance, doesn’t it!?!?

One thing I'm sure: time-consuming decisions, late, fast or not taken; everything has consequences. Think! Reflect! Get anxious! Putz... Beware! These effects lead to anxiety. Anxiety leads to other consequences.

Well... this text has not been done in order to give you a solution, dear reader! The main reason I have done was for us to stop to judge people by the way they talk, act, laugh, sing. The reason, my impulse to write was to us to think before judging, criticizing, giving opinions without thinking. The perfect would be NOT JUDGE, but since the people can not do without it, at least think/analyze before.

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