I "love" these people who wake up and think
'From today on, I don't want him/her in my life anymore!' and out of nowhere
socially blocks someone from your life, regardless of whether they were an
acquaintance, colleague, friend, family member, etc. This is perhaps a gift.
I'm from the other extreme: I cling to any motherfucker who laughs
at me. This is a big defect, because I, because I get attached, expect at least
the minimum... and often the person doesn't even offer the minimum, even though
you are an excellent friend.
In fact, many people talk to you either out of
convenience or because you frequent a certain place. Either you work out at her
time, or you belong to her church, or you live in her condominium. If one day
you change your schedule/plan, the person will pretend they don't even know
you.
Many times, people want you to "get attached"
to them, do everything, deify them, but they don't make the slightest point of
being reciprocal. The argument is: "I'm not obligated to do
anything!" A shallow, weak argument to justify her detachment and lack of
desire to be with you, because, in fact, when someone wants, they seek, they go
after it.
Anyway... just a random rant! Let's continue. Adult life
is like this: between work and diet, we find about 5 minutes to vent nonsense.
Raphael Paiva
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